Closure

The closure is found,
The question answered,
The reasons known,
The relationship ended.

Healed a part in the heart of mine,
One of many of different encounters,
This, the one that brave to oblige,
Than others that shun, like cowards and hide.

Peace in the heart, an answered prayer,
A light you shown to make it clearer,
For you have helped to show the path
Lesser the obstacles as I continue to march

A wish to be loved or cared

When you fall sick, you wish that someone is there with you. But when there isn't anyone around, its up to you to pick yourself up to care for your own.

A need to have someone there with you not only warms yourself up, but to know that someone cares for you. A person that would be there for you when you are not able to do the things yourself, to assist you in ways so that you can rest better.

This sort of thing does not fall to everyone as some do live alone and does not have someone to care for. When there is times you fall sick, you'd get calls from friends or maybe a visit from them, though sometimes you do get visits, but its not the one you want.

You want to be pampered a little or to be cared by your loved one.

Well, wake up and smell the roses, cause for you guys who is gonna be alone and yet to be in a relationship, you need to care and love yourself more than anyone who is gonna give their attention to you.

Till that time comes, at least, know something, know deep down inside your heart that, in life, to love oneself is the best thing you ever could do for yourself and that someone that pours their care and love for you is an added bonus.

You can't demand from it, you can't ask for it, you can only allow it to come as it pleases.

Strange Feelings

When the feelings come, how should we feel,
Should we do to leave it, embrace it, or discard it?
No matter what you do to it, no matter how,
The first touch of it you sense it somehow.

Touch to your heart this strange little feeling,
A sense of happiness,
A sense of sorrow,
A sense of fear,
Or a sense like there's no tomorrow.

When these feelings come what should we do,
To some you envy 'cause they know what to do,
To some when they handle they show in their faces,
To some they hide in their hearts without any traces,

Strange feelings come and go,
A visitor you are to whomever you go,
Be a friend, a foe or whatever you are,
You are liked or hated that's what you are.

Strange feelings be good or bad,
It will always be there, so how should we care?
An answer you seek will never be there,
It will be time should you know how to bare.

Stray or not to stray...

I once received a mail from a guy, stating that doesn't know what to do. He don't know what to do is because he found himself thinking of 'straying'.

The question to pose here is should we stray or not, hence comes to a more common term between couples, should it be completely, exclusively monogamous or should it be an open relationship. This does applies to both aspects of heterosexuals and the homosexuals.

I guess its the same for both of the sexual orientations as they tend to stray, well more for the guys to stray than the girls, but then again, its a fact that guys do have a shorter span on what is deemed a true commitment to the other. Girls out there, don't smile or even smirk, though I say guys do that, doesn't mean that the girls don't do it too. ;)

In the beginning of everything, the love is strong, burning hot, but what happens when the fire dissipates, it is then we have to make sure it does not, if not, when the fire dies, so does the love to one another. For a straight couple, though married, there are growing cases of divorce, and for the same sex, the party goes looking for another. But how is it that we should keep it going?
It all comes to the couple itself and no other that can help. It takes two hands to clap, thus saying that, both have to work on it to keep the flame burning.

But, to most of them, they don't tend to talk about it, but rather goes looking for another secretly, there are that those who talked it out and even agree on either

1. That both have to find something to spice up the relationship, do something new together or something.

2. That both party are up to meet other people to have their own 'strays' as long it does not affect the relationship. It could end up either both party finding their own outsiders to fulfill their lust or invite a guy/girl that both agree for a threesome. :)

There is no point of trying to stray by oneself and end up if the other half finds out, one will be having more things to explain. I know that some people said that its better left silent than to talk it out, but I really do feel that talking out will bare lesser pain than actually by hearing it from other people or finding out by themselves.

The beginning of the rambling blogger...

Today's the first time I should start of my ramblings. Thanks to a certain person who says I should keep up with writing my thoughts out than rather keeping everything to myself. To those who read, please bare in mind that it is in no way try to offend anyone whatsover but just out of the feelings that sometimes depends on the mood of the blogger. :) It might be disturbing. LOL. But then again, nobody write everything in a happy happy self. It is once in a blue moon, hmmm.. maybe not once in a blue moon, situational changes in the environment that the writings would be good and also bad (the sad, morbid stuffs).

Happy reading, or maybe, cautious reading. Don't let me affect you. LOL.